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Teeth brushed, condom on, socks off? The
London Times has revealed a list of top ten sex tips for
men.
1. Men aren't irresistible and not all women are desperate
for sex. Good lovemaking starts long before you reach the
bedroom, so before any date, have a bath. Everyone smells:
some women like the smell of male sweat, others don't, but
no one likes the smell of stale sweat. Watching steaming
movies can help things along.
2. Sexual gymnastics are often distracting. Chopping and
changing positions and techniques can make a woman's sexual
excitement plummet.
3. Thrusting for hours without climaxing doesn't make you
a stud muffin. It does make her numb and sore.
4. Don't assume your partner is comfortable in her own skin.
A survey of 3,500 British women, by the bathroom equipment
company SHUC, found that one woman in ten feels so embarrassed
about her body that she turns the lights out before taking
off her clothes. The average woman still spends a lot of
time every day beating herself up about her weight and looks.
Nakedness increases that vulnerability, so be sensitive
to her insecurities and, if you think that your partner
looks great, for God's sake tell her.
5. There's more to sex than pushing the right button. Men
have discovered that the key to female orgasm is clitoral
stimulation, and many now rub the lamp rather than poking
around inside it. The upside is that women are climaxing
more often but the increase in emphasis on genital manipulation
has made for some very mechanical sex. Going straight to
the erogenous zones is the equivalent of fast forward. Men
who focus on left breast, right breast, genitals, reduce
their partner to a set of body parts.
6. Be polite. Never nudge your partner's head towards your
nether regions. During fellatio don't thrust into your partner's
mouth, don't hold the side of her head - and definitely
warn her when you think you are going to come. With regard
to orgasm, always operate a ladies-first policy.
7. Make certain that your partner knows how attractive you
find her by paying as much attention to kissing her, complimenting
her and generally spoiling her. Don't neglect the breasts
and other erogenous zones.
8. Though clitoral orgasm is easy to achieve, most women
want to experience penetrative orgasm. Intercourse is the
ultimate connection between man and woman and the sensation
of fullness that it creates is intensely pleasurable.
9. Women are slow burners. They take longer to become aroused
and get as much pleasure, if not more, out of tenderness,
kissing and cuddling. Though quickie sex has its place,
for women on the whole, the longer sex takes, the better
it feels. If arousal is allowed to build gradually, it floods
the whole body rather than being confined to the genital
area and a delayed orgasm is infinitely more powerful than
an orgasm induced by five minutes of digital manipulation.
10. Put a little X in your sex. Watching steamy movies with
your partner will increase the chance of some how's-your-father.
Source: Times Online
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/men/article1937394.ece
- Oct 3, 2007
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